Loving Yourself First and Foremost
One of the more common mistakes that women make when it comes to searching for love is that they skip the most important part of the process and that is, loving themselves first and foremost. While you may really want to find someone to love you, you have to find that self love first or else you are always going to be dependent on someone else to feel loved. When you do that to yourself, you'll find that you tend to attract the WRONG people and that is not what you want to do, I would assume.
What you have to do is work on finding out what it is about YOURSELF that you can truly love.
What qualities do you have that make you feel like you are worthy of your own love?
What is it about you that you are really proud of?
These are things that you need to think about. When you can come up with a really long list of things that you can point out about yourself that you love and are proud of, you will find that not only do you feel better about yourself, but you tend to need less external sources of love. Not that you shouldn't want to find someone, you should if that is something that you really want to experience. However, when you really don't need someone else to make you feel loved, then you are less likely to end up with the wrong guy for you. You are a lot more likely to end up with the RIGHT ONE because you won't put up with someone who isn't right for you.
Here is a really good video that I think is worth watching that really gets to the heart of what I am trying to say:
What you have to do is work on finding out what it is about YOURSELF that you can truly love.
What qualities do you have that make you feel like you are worthy of your own love?
What is it about you that you are really proud of?
These are things that you need to think about. When you can come up with a really long list of things that you can point out about yourself that you love and are proud of, you will find that not only do you feel better about yourself, but you tend to need less external sources of love. Not that you shouldn't want to find someone, you should if that is something that you really want to experience. However, when you really don't need someone else to make you feel loved, then you are less likely to end up with the wrong guy for you. You are a lot more likely to end up with the RIGHT ONE because you won't put up with someone who isn't right for you.
Here is a really good video that I think is worth watching that really gets to the heart of what I am trying to say:
Meditations To Help You Find Love in Yourself
I have become a very firm believer in the power of using meditation to find yourself and find out what it is that you really want. It all started for me just as a way to relax. That was when I first started to use meditation. However, after a while, I did find that it had OTHER useful applications besides just relaxing. Sometimes, you need to get into that zone where you can calm yourself and drown out the noise and that will help you to feel better about yourself and also help you to find out what you really want and what you really are looking for.
Here is a good meditation that isn't too long that does seem to have some pretty useful benefits:
Here is a good meditation that isn't too long that does seem to have some pretty useful benefits: